HIJAB IS AN ATTITUDE NOT A FASHION

August 19, 2008
Young Muslim woman wearing JilbabNovember 2007

Hijab is an Attitude, not a Fashion

by Somayya Gefori

Hijab is not something we wear as a fashion statement, it is not merely a piece of clothing. Hijab is part of the Islamic way of life, hijab is an attitude, a way of thinking and behaving.

There is such a saying as a woman being clothed, yet naked. This means that she is wearing clothing, but it is so tight and transparent, that it could hardly be called clothing. Even if the clothing is long, if it is tight and figure-hugging, so that it reveals a woman’s shape, it is not hijab.

Hijab is not only wearing a scarf on your head, it also means to cover your awra.

A woman’s awra is her full body. She must cover her hair, torso, arms, legs and feet. The best way of covering everything is to wear a jilbaab/abaya and a scarf on the head. They must be baggy enough so as not to show the shape. They also must not be transparent. Some women choose to also wear niqaab which covers the face; gloves are often worn with it to cover the hands.

“And Say to the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, head cover, apron), and to draw their veils all over (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms).” Surah an-Nur 30-31.

Women shouldn’t beautify themselves when they go out, such as wear make-up, perfumeShabina Begum wearing Jilbab or shoes that make a loud sound when they walk outside. Wearing make-up and perfume should be reserved only for her husband to see, not any strange man outside! Many Western women beautify themselves for men, going out caked in make-up, in a cloud of perfume and non-covering clothes so that they draw attention to themselves from the opposite sex.

Going back to what I mentioned above about the hijab being an attitude and a way of thinking, it means that when Muslim women go out, they must act like proper Muslim women. No flirting, talking to men casually, talking too loudly (the voice is also an awra! A man could find a woman’s voice attractive.) etc. We should conduct ourselves with dignity at all times; after all, whenever we go out in the world, we are representing Islam.

There will always be people out there who don’t understand the hijab and direct negative comments and stares towards us. But eventually, you won’t notice those people staring. You will be comfortable in your hijab, you will be strong. It should get to the point where you would feel naked without your covering over your clothes!

But hijab is not only for women, it is for men too. Men have an awra, from their navel to their knee (that is the absolute minimum; it is recommended that men should dress fully and modestly as well). They should also lower their gazes. Although in most Muslim countries, men do not usually walk around without a t-shirt on.

This means that men should not wear tight clothing, or revealing clothing. So, all those young men who insist on wearing their tight jeans so low that everybody can see their underwear should think again!

So, why do we wear hijab? For our husbands? To impress people at the mosque? No. We wear hijab to please Allah and no-one else.

 

TeenPerspectives.com


WHAT IS THE CORRECT HIJAB by SHAIKH AL- ALBAANI

August 19, 2008

THIS ARTICLE ALTHOUGH SOME MAY FIND IT STRICT, IS THE MOST CORRECT AND CLEAR IN ITS CONTENT CONCERNING THE RULES GOVERNING WEARING HIJAB, AND IS GOOD FOR THOSE WHO HAVE STRONG FAITH IN WHAT ALLAH SWT HAS ASKED OF THEM. THANKS TO THE SITE FOR SUCH A PRECISE ARTICLE.
Have questions related to Islam? Visit this link to get answers for your query in the light of Quran & Hadith :

http://islamqa.com/index.php?ln=eng

What is the correct Hijab?

Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The conditions of hijaab:

Firstly:

(It should cover all the body apart from whatever has been exempted).

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”

This aayah clearly states that it is obligatory to cover all of a woman’s beauty and adornments and not to display any part of that before non-mahram men (“strangers”) except for whatever appears unintentionally, in which case there will be no sin on them if they hasten to cover it up.

Al-Haafiz ibn Katheer said in his Tafseer:

This means that they should not display any part of their adornment to non-mahrams, apart from that which it is impossible to conceal. Ibn Mas’ood said: such as the cloak and robe, i.e., what the women of the Arabs used to wear, an outer garment which covered whatever the woman was wearing, except for whatever appeared from beneath the outer garment. There is no sin on a woman with regard to this because it is impossible to conceal it.

Secondly

(it should not be an adornment in and of itself).

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“… and not to show off their adornment…” [al-Noor 24:31]. The general meaning of this phrase includes the outer garment, because if it is decorated it will attract men’s attention to her. This is supported by the aayah in Soorat al-Ahzaab (interpretation of the meaning):

“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. It is also supported by the hadeeth in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are three, do not ask me about them: a man who leaves the jamaa’ah, disobeys his leader and dies disobedient; a female or male slave who runs away then dies; and a woman whose husband is absent and left her with everything she needs, and after he left she made a wanton display of herself. Do not ask about them.”

(Narrated by al-Haakim, 1/119; Ahmad, 6/19; from the hadeeth of Faddaalah bint ‘Ubayd. Its isnaad is saheeh and it is in al-Adab al-Mufrad).

Thirdly:

(It should be thick and not transparent or “see-thru”)

- because it cannot cover properly otherwise. Transparent or see-thru clothing makes a woman more tempting and beautiful. Concerning this the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “During the last days of my ummah there will be women who are clothed but naked, with something on their heads like the humps of camels. Curse them, for they are cursed.” Another hadeeth adds: “They will not enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.”

(Narrated by Muslim from the report of Abu Hurayrah).

Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said: what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) meant was women who wear clothes made of light fabric which describes and does not cover. They are clothed in name but naked in reality.

Transmitted by al-Suyooti in Tanweer al-Hawaalik, 3/103.

Fourthly:

(It should be loose, not tight so that it describes any part of the body).

The purpose of clothing is to prevent fitnah (temptation), and this can only be achieved if clothes are wide and loose. Tight clothes, even if they conceal the colour of the skin, still describe the size and shape of the body or part of it, and create a vivid image in the minds of men. The corruption or invitation to corruption that is inherent in that is quite obvious. So the clothes must be wide. Usaamah ibn Zayd said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) gave me a thick Egyptian garment that was one of the gifts given to him by Duhyat al-Kalbi, and I gave it to my wife to wear. He said, ‘Why do I not see you wearing that Egyptian garment?’ I said, ‘I gave it to my wife to wear.’ He said, ‘Tell her to wear a gown underneath it, for I am afraid that it may describe the size of her bones.’” (Narrated by al-Diyaa’ al-Maqdisi in al-Ahaadeeth al-Mukhtaarah, 1/442, and by Ahmad and al-Bayhaqi, with a hasan isnaad).

Fifthly:

(It should not be perfumed with bakhoor or fragrance)

There are many ahaadeeth which forbid women to wear perfume when they go out of their houses. We will quote here some of those which have saheeh isnaads:

     

  1. Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.”

  2. Zaynab al-Thaqafiyyah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you (women) goes out to the mosque, let her not touch any perfume.”

  3. Abu Hurayrah said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who has scented herself with bakhoor (incense), let her not attend ‘Ishaa’ prayers with us.”

  4.  

  5. Moosa ibn Yassaar said that a woman passed by Abu Hurayrah and her scent was overpowering. He said, “O female slave of al-Jabbaar, are you going to the mosque?” She said, “Yes,” He said, “And have you put on perfume because of that?” She said, “Yes.” He said, “Go back and wash yourself, for I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘If a woman comes out to the mosque and her fragrance is overpowering, Allaah will not accept any prayer from her until she goes home and washes herself.’”

  6.  

     

These ahaadeeth are general in implication. Just as the prohibition covers perfume applied to the body, it also covers perfume applied to the clothes, especially in the third hadeeth, where bakhoor (incense) is mentioned, because incense is used specifically to perfume the clothes.

The reason for this prohibition is quite clear, which is that women’s fragrance may cause undue provocation of desires. The scholars also included other things under this heading of things to be avoided by women who want to go to the mosque, such as beautiful clothes, jewellery that can be seen, excessive adornments and mingling with men. See Fath al-Baari, 2/279.

Ibn Daqeeq al-‘Eed said:

This indicates that it is forbidden for a woman who wants to go to the mosque to wear perfume, because this causes provocation of men’s desires. This was reported by al-Manaawi in Fayd al-Qadeer, in the commentary on the first hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah quoted above.

Sixthly:

(It should not resemble the clothing of men)

It was reported in the saheeh ahaadeeth that a woman who imitates men in dress or in other ways is cursed. There follow some of the ahaadeeth that we know:

     

  1. Abu Hurayrah said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed the man who wears women’s clothes, and the woman who wears men’s clothes.”

  2. ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘They are not part of us, the women who imitate men and the men who imitate women.’”

  3. Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed effeminate men and masculine women. He said, ‘Throw them out of your houses.’” He said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) expelled So and so, and ‘Umar expelled So and so.” According to another version: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed men who imitate women and women who imitate men.”

  4. ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘There are three who will not enter Paradise and Allaah will not even look at them on the Day of Resurrection: one who disobeys his parents, a woman who imitates men, and the duyooth (cuckold, weak man who feels no jealousy over his womenfolk).”

  5.  

  6. Ibn Abi Maleekah – whose name was ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Ubayd-Allaah – said: “It was said to ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), ‘What if a woman wears (men’s) sandals?’ She said: ‘The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed women who act like men.’”

  7.  

     

These ahaadeeth clearly indicate that it is forbidden for women to imitate men and vice versa, This usually includes dress and other matters, apart from the first hadeeth quoted above, which refers to dress only.

Abu Dawood said, in Masaa’il al-Imaam Ahmad (p. 261): “I heard Ahmad being asked about a man who dresses his slave woman in a tunic. He said, ‘Do not clothe her in men’s garments, do not make her look like a man.” Abu Dawood said: “I said to Ahmad, Can he give her bachelor sandals to wear? He said, No, unless she wears them to do wudoo’. I said, What about for beauty? He said, No. I said, Can he cut her hair short? He said, No.”

Seventhly:

(It should not resemble the dress of kaafir women).

It is stated in sharee’ah that Muslims, men and women alike, should not resemble or imitate the kuffaar with regard to worship, festivals or clothing that is specific to them. This is an important Islamic principle which nowadays, unfortunately, is neglected by many Muslims, even those who care about religion and calling others to Islam. This is due either to ignorance of their religion, or because they are following their own whims and desires, or because of deviation, combined with modern customs and imitation of kaafir Europe. This was one of the causes of the Muslims’ decline and weakness, which enabled the foreigners to overwhelm and colonize them. “…Verily, Allaah will not change the condition of a people as long as they do not change their state themselves …” [al-Ra’d 13:11 – interpretation of the meaning]. If only they knew.

It should be known that there is a great deal of saheeh evidence for these important rules in the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and that the evidence in the Qur’aan is elaborated upon in the Sunnah, as is always the case.

Eighthly:

(It should not be a garment of fame and vanity).

Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever wears a garment of fame and vanity in this world, Allaah will clothe him in a garment of humiliation on the Day of Resurrection, then He will cause Fire to flame up around him.’”

(Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah, p. 54-67).

And Allaah knows best.

Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah, p. 54-67


HIJAB – A CHOICE OR REQUIRED?

August 19, 2008

Question and Answer Details

Name of Questioner

Shakir   – Sri Lanka

 

Title

Hijab… a Must, Not a Choice

 

Date

29/Feb/2004

 

Question

Hello, Dear Scholars.

My question is about hijab. The usual question is whether or not it is obligatory. My question is a bit more basic. What Qur’anic verse or authentic hadith suggests that wearing the head cover is the compulsory?

The most popular Qur’anic quotation relating to hijab, which is often quoted is An-Nur 24:31, which doesn’t explicitly say that the head should be covered. I would like to know all material —Qur’anic verses and authentic (not weak, not fabricated) hadith— on which the head cover ruling is based.

If the ruling on head cover is a mere interpretation by scholars of the above Qur’anic verse, then I don’t find it so convincing. To my understanding, this Qur’anic verse merely asks women to dress decently, to cover their bosoms fully, and not display any temptation in that way.

If scholars were to say that showing the hair is a temptation, then what about the face and hands? If that is the yardstick used, then not a single portion of a woman should be visible. Please reply to my question, as a lot of people would benefit from it. Wa salam.

 

Topic

Virtues

 

Name of Counselor

Sahar El-Nadi

Answer


Salam
, Shakir.

Thank you for your question. As you suggested, it is hoped that the answer would benefit many Muslims and non-Muslims who may have some misconceptions about hijab.

Before providing you with Qur’anic proof and wisdom behind the religiously mandated hijab, let us first define some Arabic terms related to your question: Islam, hijab, and khimar.

Arabic Words Have Many Meanings

Arabic is a language very rich in shades of meaning for every word; translations often fail to do justice to Arabic verses for lack of appropriate vocabulary. Consequently, it is necessary, when addressing controversial issues, to look closely at the meaning of the Arabic words used in the original context. Let’s start from the meaning of the name of this religion: Islam.

Meaning of the Arabic Word Islam and How Muslims Regard Islamic Rules

Islam means total submission to Allah—in mind, heart, body, and soul—total acceptance of His laws and rules without doubts or arguments, total obedience to Him and His Messenger, and total refusal of shirk (associating anyone with Allah) in all its forms. The Qur’an states what means:

*{It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error}* (Al-Ahzab 33:36).

Muslims should not argue the commands, rules, or laws of Allah and His Prophet (peace be upon him). They do not need proof from Allah for everything He asks of them. Their obedience is the mark of their true faith. In addition, Islam is a complete way of life that should be wholly adhered to by its followers. Thus, Muslims are not supposed to worship selectively, picking out whatever rules or rituals appeal to them and leaving the rest. Denying a basic Islamic rule or ritual is a serious sin.

Meaning of the Arabic Word Hijab

Hijab in Arabic means “barrier” or “screen” and thus it appears in various Qur’anic verses, referring to many things besides the woman’s head cover. For example:
Allah Almighty says in the Qur’an that He only talks to humans from behind a hijab. The Qur’an says what means:

*{It is not given to any human being that Allah should speak to him unless [it be] by revelation, or from behind a veil}* (Ash-Shura 42:51).

The Virgin Mary worshipped behind a hijab:

*{She placed a screen [to screen herself] from them}* (Maryam 19:17).

And, on Judgment Day there will be a hijab between the residents of Paradise and the residents of Hell:

*{And between them will be a [barrier] screen}* (Al-A`raf 7:51).

In all these verses, the Arabic word hijab was used to mean different things. In this light, let’s ponder the logic of hijab.

The Qur’an teaches us to look around us with open eyes and minds, to think, rationalize, and reach logical conclusions. If we look at the universe, from the tiny atom to the huge celestial bodies, don’t we see how everything important or precious is protected and concealed with a cover? Think of the skin to the human body, the womb to the baby, the plasma wall to the cell, the bark to the tree trunks, the shell to the egg, even the entire planet we live on is enjoying the protection of a “hijab”—which we call the atmosphere—against the dangers of asteroids and harmful cosmic rays. Think how other planets—Mars for example— deprived of their “hijab” have suffered much harm.

Meaning of the Word Khimar in Arabic

The Arabic word khimar means “top-cover” and it also applies to many things besides women’s head covers. For example, it applies to the top covering a pot or jar, to any head cover worn by people even men. Notably, that’s where liquor and narcotics got their Arabic name khamr because they “cover” the reasoning when a person is intoxicated.

Khimar is the word used to prescribe the head cover of Muslim women in the verse you referred to. The Qur’an says what means:

*{And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons…}* (An-Nur 24:31).

The meaning apparent to the Arabic reader is that in the presence of men who are not mahrams to a Muslim women, she should wear a head cover that extends long enough to cover the bosom, not that only the bosom is covered. Another verse in Surat Al-Ahzab clarifies this further. The Qur’an says what means:

*{O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons [when abroad]; that is most convenient, that they should be known [as such] and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful}* (Al-Ahzab 33:59).

The Arabic word used here to indicate the cover is the plural of jilbab. Ibn Taymiyyah stated in Majmu` Al-Fatawa 22:110-111: “The jilbab is a cover which is large enough to cover the woman’s head and the rest of her body hanging from the top of her head.”

Further, the Qur’an instructs the Prophet’s Companions in words that mean:

*{And when you ask [the Prophet’s wives] for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen}* (Al-Ahzab 33:53).

The meaning of hijab in this verse is any object that conceals a woman such as a wall, a door, or clothes. The ruling of the verse, even though it was revealed concerning the wives of the Prophet (peace be upon him), generally encompasses all Muslim women. This is because the wisdom behind the ruling is specified in the remainder of the verse. It says what means:

*{that makes for greater purity for your hearts and theirs}* (Al-Ahzab 33:53).

This wisdom is general among all men and women. Therefore the generality of the wisdom also indicates the general application of the rule as apparent in surah 33, verse 59 above.

Islam uplifted women, gave them equality, and expects them to maintain their status. The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The hijab or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the “subjugation” of women under Islamic law. Yet, the truth is that 1400 years ago, Islam recognized women’s rights in a way that grants them the utmost protection and respect as well, a combination other systems fail to offer. Islam granted them freedom of expression, political participation, business and financial rights, and asked the rest of society to hold them in high esteem and offer them due respect as mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters.

In the Qur’an, Allah Almighty first mentions lowering the gaze for men before lowering the gaze and wearing hijab for women. The Qur’an teaches us what means:

*{Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do}* (An-Nur 24:30).

The moment a man looks at a woman with any brazen or unashamed thought in mind, he should lower his gaze. The next verse of Surat An-Nur is the one commanding believing women to wear the hijab.

Islam expects women to maintain their status by following Allah’s rules designed for their advantage. Hijab is one such rule.

Six Criteria for Hijab

According to the Qur’an and Sunnah, there are basically six criteria for observing hijab:

1. It is obligatory for males to cover at least from the navel to the knees. For women, it is obligatory to cover the complete body except the face and the hands up to the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars insist that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of hijab, especially if temptation (fitna) is feared in times and places where Islamic rules are not prevalent or if security is scarce.

All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women:
2. The clothes should be loose and should not reveal the figure.
3. The clothes should not be transparent or see-through.
4. The clothes should not be so glamorous as to attract attention.
5. The clothes should not resemble those of the opposite sex.
6. The clothes should not resemble those of the unbelievers, that is, clothes that identify or are symbols of the unbelievers’ religions.

Hijab Includes Conduct

Complete hijab, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral conduct, behavior, attitude, and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of hijab of the clothes is observing hijab in a limited sense. Hijab of the clothes should be accompanied by hijab of the eyes, the heart, the thought, and the intention. It also includes the way a person walks, talks, and behaves. Therefore, the hypocritical use of hijab is not a good example of Muslim conduct.

Hijab Prevents Molestation

The Qur’an says that hijab enables women to be recognized as modest women and this will also protect them from being molested. Suppose there is a hooligan who is waiting to tease a girl. Whom will he tease? a girl wearing hijab, or one wearing a mini skirt or shorts? Hijab does not degrade a woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.

Lifting the Veil Will Not Uplift Women

Woman’s liberalization mostly disguises exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation of her honor. Non-Muslim societies claim to have uplifted women via allowing them to expose their bodies, but on the contrary, this has actually degraded them to mere tools in the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketers, hidden behind the colorful screen of “art” and “culture.”

Muslim women should be well aware of these facts. They should be aware that hijab protects them from evil glances and evil desires of those who are sick in the heart, as described in the Qur’an. Muslim women must adhere to Allah’s rules and not be persuaded or tempted by the media that opposes hijab or belittles its significance, as those who spread these ideas only desire evil for her. The Qur’an warns by saying what means:

*{But the wish of those who follow their lusts is that you should deviate away [from the right path], -far, far away}* (An-Nisaa’ 4:27).

I hope this answers your question and satisfies your inquiries. Thank you and please keep in touch.

Salam.

FIND MORE AT: http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=1123996016350&pagename=IslamOnline-English-AAbout_Islam/AskAboutIslamE/AskAboutIslamE

 


No Point in Wearing Hijab…….Really??

August 16, 2008
   
No point in wearing hijab  
IslamOnline – 2/13/2004 11:36:00 PM GMT

 

As-salamu `alaykum.  

I am a well-educated, married, Muslim woman. I was raised on proper Islamic values,al-hamdu lillah. I have a beautiful 14 year old daughter who began regular prayer and fasting the full month of Ramadan when she was 7 years old. She is very clever in school and is at the top of her class. Last Ramadan she decided to wear the hijab and I agreed. The problem is that I do not wear the hijab and I do not feel bad about it. I am very religious and I raised my daughter according to proper Islamic values, the same way I was raised; I come from a very religious family. I wear proper Islamic clothes but I do not wear the hijab. I cut my hair very short and I am 39 years old. I do not feel that my hair is fitnah (temptation) to anybody, or so I always tell myself. I pray regularly, I fast, I pay, zakah (obligatory alms) and give charity; I do lots of charity work. I feel satisfied. 

I do not think that this little piece of cloth to cover a few inches of hair will add anything to my behavior or my strong religious beliefs and activity. I do not wear tight, short or transparent clothes. I am very respectable. I am saving money to be able to afford Hajj (Pilgrimage to the Ka`bah). So do you think that wearing the hijab is that necessary to me, especially since in Egypt lots of veiled women do not even pray and unfortunately they set a very bad image of Islam. Whenever I try to wear the veil and I look at myself in the mirror, I feel that I am looking at someone else. I feel that I lost my identity. Could you please advise me? 


Answer 

As-salamu `alaykum. 
Thank you, thank you, and thank you for writing to us with this question. We are delighted to know that you have actually taken the time to write about an issue that is obviously of great personal concern to you. We also realize that through the response to your question, many other Muslim women, both young and old, will be helped in sha’ Allah

First, let’s not overlook the positive. Allah Most High has guided you to be religious, ma sha’ Allah, and has encouraged your daughter to be religious. We do not want to underestimate the value, in this day and age, of a mother and daughter team who are both religious. On top of all this, you are also active in charity work, and that is an added blessing to your already being religious. 

Second, let’s not talk about hijab just yet, but about role modeling. As an educated mother, you have modeled to your daughter that education is important and ma sha’ Allah,ma sha’ Allah, she is religious at such a young age. Therefore, overall, you are a good role model to your daughter through emphasizing education and religion. 

Third, let’s talk about the hijab. You are an educated woman, ma sha’ Allah, and you have come to the following conclusions: 
1) That your hair is not fitnah. 
2) That you do not think a “little piece of cloth to cover a few inches of hair will add anything to [your] behavior or [your] strong religious beliefs and activity.” 
3) That “in Egypt lots of veiled women do not even pray and unfortunately they set a very bad image of Islam.” 
4) That when you practice putting on the hijab in front of the mirror, you feel like you are “looking at someone else” and you “feel that [you] lost [your] identity.” 

Those four conclusions could be discussed and debated at length. Since you are an educated woman, we want to pose some questions for you to consider at your own leisure: why is it that only your hair is not fitnah? Moreover, your hair is not fitnah for whom? How do you know what impact or affect your hair has on men? Why do you believe that the hijab is meant to add anything to your behavior? Do you believe the hijab is supposed to make a person more religious? How? Shouldn’t it be the other way around; that instead of adding something to a woman’s behavior, wearing the hijab actually complements a woman’s struggle to be religious? Isn’t a religious person someone who would try to follow all the commandments of Allah and therefore would already be putting on the hijab anyway? Just because some women who wear the hijab do not pray and set a bad image for Islam, should we do away with the hijab altogether or should we attempt to help those few women to improve themselves? When does it ever make sense to do away with the hijab, which promotes modesty and dignity, just because a minority behave badly while wearing it? 

The main question we want to ask you is whether you actually believe that the hijab is obligatory for Muslim women who have reached the age of maturity? If you truly love Allah and His Messenger and consider yourself religious, then you will also obey Allah and His Messenger and strive endlessly to seek His pleasure through wholehearted and complete submission. You are so close to achieving that submission since you already do so much of what Allah has commanded us to do. Isn’t it possible then that your own personal desire to maintain an image of who you think you are is overpowering your conscience, which is guiding you to consider wearing the hijab? 

Of course it will look like you are looking at someone else when you wear the hijab, because you are fundamentally altering the shape of your head and face to some degree by covering up your hair! Nevertheless, you should not fear this new and different look because it is the look of one who, despite being fully educated and given the ability to choose, has chosen to submit to Allah Most High. Your identity is not lost, it has been enhanced, blessed, transformed into a being who, after years of struggle, has achieved peace and tranquility in her heart through complete and unflinching submission to Allah Most High. 

You are obviously a very special person because you have not forced your personal beliefs onto your own daughter. But imagine how painful it must be for your daughter to know that at the height of being educated, her mother chose to disobey Allah Most High, how challenging that feeling must be for a child! For your own sake, and for the sake of your daughter’s peace of mind, go back to the mirror, put on the hijab and greet the new you, the one who is at peace with herself by having pleased her Lord! 

Indeed, we make du`aa’ for you to be among those mentioned in Surat Al-Fajr (verses 27-30), when Allah Most High says, 

(To the righteous soul will be said :) “O (thou) soul, in (complete) rest and satisfaction! Come back thou to thy Lord-well pleased (thyself), and well pleasing unto Him! Enter thou, then, among My devotees! Yea, enter thou My Heaven!”

Read those verses of Surat Al-Fajr in the original Arabic and reflect on them. You will not lose your identity when you wear the hijab, you will still be that educated, religious Muslim woman, but now your identity will,in sha’ Allah, be complete! 

Allah knows best.


How to wear hijab;choosing your own style

August 6, 2008

What Kind of Hijab Do I Choose?

 

several differant styles of hijab

several differant styles of hijab

    Often when a new muslima or one who has decided to start wearing hijab looks at the variety and types of hijabs available it can be confusing.  It is also confusing when we see some women covering from head to foot leaving almost nothing exposed, yet others wearing pretty much western clothing with just a scarf over their hair. It is important that when a woman puts on hijab that it is for the sake of pleasing Allah and for seeking the reward in the hereafter. So where is a woman supposed to begin?

I guess at the beginning with the comandment of Allah swt, in which He states “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to guard their modesty. That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is acquainted with all that they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and to guard their modesty, and not to display their adornments, except that which ordinarily appears thereof, and to draw their head-veils over their necks and bosoms, and not to reveal their adornments except to their own husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers, or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants free of physical desires, or small children who have no sense of women’s nakedness. Let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they conceal of their hidden ornaments. And turn unto Allah altogether, O you Believers; in order that you may attain success.” An Nur (24:30-31)

 

Here are some basic points to remember when choosing new clothing for hijab:

 In the Name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful

Hijab Basics:


The Requirements of the Muslim Woman’s Dress

Muslim women are required in Islam to cover themselves whenever they are outside of their homes or in the presence of non-mahrem men. This provides many benefits to the Muslim woman herself as well as to the society as a whole. Allah willing, I plan on discussing many of these benefits in future articles. This article, however, will simply describe the physical requirements of hijab. My hope is that it will serve as a reference for Muslim women as well as a basic introduction to hijab for non-Muslims.

The word hijab is derived from the Arabic root hajaba, which means to hide from view or to conceal. Many people use it to refer to the headscarf which Muslim women wear (as in: I bought this hijab for $10 yesterday), but hijab is much more than a headscarf: it is an entire way of dressing, behaving and believing. It is acceptable to name the scarf hijab so long as it does not lead to the wrong impression that a headscarf is the only requirement of true hijab. After all, anyone can wear a headscarf (gypsies, fashion models, etc.), but it takes much more than that to fufill the conditions of Islamic dress.


1. Proper hijab (concealment for the Muslim woman) dictates that the entire body must be covered, although the face and hands may be exposed. Some women choose to cover themselves further by means of a face veil and gloves, and this is perfectly fine.

2. The clothing must be long and loose-fitting so that the shape of the woman is not outlined in her garments. The preferred coverings include the jelbab and the abaya which are floor-length cloaks which come in various types of fabric and may be worn over a woman’s regular house clothing. Pants are unacceptable unless they are worn underneath the outer garments.

3. Garments should not be transparent as to reveal the color of a woman’s skin or to expose the hair or body in any way. With regards to the headscarf, it must cover all of the hair and be long enough to cover the woman’s ears, neck and chest. Women should take care to ensure that the scarf is securely fastened, usually with pins, and that her hair is arranged so that it will not slip out of her scarf.

4. Colors and styles should be as plain as possible so that unnecessary attention is not drawn to the woman. In addition, the clothing should not be excessively rich and fancy in order to gain admiration nor excessively poor and ragged in order to gain sympathy. Modesty is the main goal.

5. Jewelry must not be displayed, and it is especially important that it does not make noise as a woman walks (an ankle-bracelet with bells, for example). Women in pre-Islamic Arabia used to wear such bracelets and stamp their feet in the markets in order to entice and attract men.

6. The dress should not resemble the garments of men, nor should it imitate the dress of non-Muslims.

7. Make-up (unless it is completely covered by a face-veil) and perfume are strictly prohibited for Muslim women when outdoors or in the presence of non-mahrem men.

8. A Muslim woman who wears hijab should also strive to make her actions consistent with her dress with regards to Islamic guidelines for speech, manners and behavior.

Originally published at Suite101.com. Reprinted with permission.

FROM: THE ISLAMIC GARDEN, WITH THANKS.

 

ADDITIONALLY,

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, we would like to thank you for the great confidence you place in us, and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for His Sake.

Islam does not prohibit women from going out to fulfill their needs, but it lays down a proper code of behavior, which is primarily intended to safeguard the modesty, dignity and honor of men and women.

In his response to your question, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states:

It is important to remember that the purpose of hijab in Islam is not to cut women out from participating in the activities of the society or to keep men and women utterly segregated or to make it hard for women to function normally in life. Rather the purpose of hijab is to help women maintain their dignity and honor as free persons and to help them fulfill their obligations smoothly and comfortably.

So the requirements of hijab are never oppressive or restrictive in any way; here are the requisites of hijab or proper Islamic attire for women:

1. It should cover her whole body except face and hands.

2. It should be loose-fitting.

3. It should not be transparent or revealing.

4. It should not be an attire specifically worn by men only.

So long as your attire fulfills the above conditions, you don’t have to worry. Remember Allah has not revealed religion to make life difficult; rather it is intended to make it easy and comfortable for us. Allah says: (He has not laid upon you in religion any hardship) (Al-Hajj 22: 78). (Allah wishes to lighten the burden for you; for certainly man has been created weak!) (An-Nisaa’ 4: 28).

Excerpted, with slight modifications, from: www.islam.ca

  There are square hijab that are folded into a triangle and that you can pin under your chin, this kind allows air to flow more than some other kinds.  There are two piece cotton hijab that are practicle and easy to use. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also there are long scarves that come in many styles and colors that look like a rectangle and are wrapped around the head and sometimes pinned on one side of the head. These are sometimes called mendeel or tarhah. Each woman has to try different types to see which one is the most comfortable and practical for her needs, if she is working or a mother with young children, some kinds are better than others.  Students may prefere the simple two pieces that dont need ironing and can be thrown on as they run out the door for classes! Some of them can be mix and matched to the clothes or outer garment colors. I have found that the looser the scarf is the easier it is for me to wear it as its less confining and less hot.

 long wrapped scarf over a hair cap

  

 

 One mistake that many women are making these days is trying to “modernize” hijab, and this is not a wise thing to do when seeking to wear hijab for the sake of Allah swt. Bright colors and flashy styles that are worn to actually attract attention are not fulfilling the purpose of hijab.  The whole purpose of hijab is moderation and modesty, in color, style, materials, and the behavior of the woman.  Frequently we see young girls wearing fancy clothes that they think “fit” into the terms of hijab yet make them very attractive and seductive, with high heals that make alot of noise while walking.

It is normal for new muhajiba, women who have put hijab on newly, to pass through stages, where maybe they wear pants with long tops, then work into long skirts, then gradually accept that the outer garment is really the easiest and best form of fulfillling the requirments of hijab.  They find not only dignity in it but also beauty and simplicity and freedom.  It is the same as watching a butterfly transform into the magnificent and beautiful free creation that it is.

Hijab is about freeing ourselves from sexual inuendos and values that limit ourselves to ideals that are being set upon us rather than the lofty ones which God has given women.  Let us regain our dignity and idendity as independant women of beauty and strength and value our intellegence and capabilities.

Moderator: Sakinah

below please see some pictures of some types mentioned above, taken from www.almuhajabat.com/page.wearhijab please see their site for more information.

 

 

 

  


THE HIJAB: MISCONCIEVED, MISTAKEN, MISUNDERSTOOD

July 25, 2008
  PART 2So then, why would Muslim women choose to wear the hijab if it is understood to be so oppressive by so many people? What does the hijab represent, what does it mean, and what are the responsibilities that a Muslim woman has in wearing the hijab? Have Islam and the hijab, a simple piece of cloth, liberated or oppressed women? And could there possibly be any benefits in wearing the hijab in today’s modern consumer loving society?

Well we spoke to some young Muslim girls who shared their views on the hijab, their experiences and how they feel in the Australian society. But to get the answers to the most important questions asked by so many, all we have to do is look at the basic Islamic sources: the Quran, Holy Book and the Sunnah, traditions of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him).

The hijab is a piece of cloth or material that covers a woman’s head, hair and chest area. A woman with the hijab on must cover her whole body excluding her face and hands.

Aisha, the wife of the Muhammad, reported that Asmaa, the daughter of Abu Bakr, came to the Messenger of Allah while wearing thin clothing. He approached her and said: ‘O Asmaa! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands.” (Abu Dawood)

The word HIJAB means to veil, cover, screen, protect, seclude and obscure. But most importantly, it means ‘barrier’. It can be a barrier that protects and screens off a woman’s body and beauty from men and the public.

Why do Muslim women have to wear the hijab?
This is the question that everyone asks, and, the answer is simple: because Allah has asked Muslim women to do so.

“O people, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known to be Muslims and not annoyed…” (Quran 33:59)

Muslim women wear the hijab for modesty, for respect and to fulfill their way of life: Islam. The hijab allows women to be judged on their intellect rather than their appearance. The hijab helps Muslim women to make a statement about their identity, feel dignified, modest and confident. The hijab also limits the way men treat women as ‘sex objects’ and allows them to be treated as ‘equals’.

The requirement of wearing the hijab is to cover ones beauty, the hijab covers ones hair, neck and bosom (chest area). The whole body is to be covered except for the face and hands, clothing should be loose, not to show ones body shape; clothes must be thick, not see through; and they should not attract a man’s attention. A Muslim woman’s dress should not imitate that of a man it should be modest: not too fancy, not to ragged, just right.

More importantly though, the hijab is not merely the external dress code, it also has an internal facet. The hijab also involves the behaviour, manners, speech, and appearance of a woman in public. The external appearance is just one part of the total being. The hijab is not a restriction, but it is seen as a way in which society will function in a proper, Islamic manner.

The hijab has liberated women not oppressed them. It gives women their rights and freedom in society to be treated like a human being not a sex object or a man’s slave. In the past, before Islam and the hijab were introduced to women, women had no rights; they were owned by men for sexual enjoyment and seen as a factory that produces offspring and a devil in human form. When Islam came, women felt liberated and were treated with dignity and respect. Through Islam, women were given equal rights as men and were no longer obliged to the injustices and torture laid on them by the Pre-Islamic world.

Why is the hijab so important in today’s society?
The hijab allows women to be judged on their personality and mind, as opposed to their looks and appearance. This is an important moral in our society today. The ‘West’ say they give freedom to women, yet why do they have to throw in a women in every commercial and advertisement that has nothing to do with women?

In today’s world women are being encouraged to show off their bodies and be proud of their femininity. And yet we know that the majority of designers behind the most dominant fashion names are men. So, women are still being controlled by men and are not apparently equal in today’s society.

Today, getting dressed half- naked is seen as ‘girl power’. Is it really, or is it sexism? The ‘West’ argues that women should wear what they please; so then why do they find it so hard to understand why Muslim women choose to wear the hijab?

The absurd things people say to girls that wear the hijab…

• “Do you go to sleep with it on?”

• “Do you take a shower with it on?”

• “Does that mean that you are bald underneath?”

• “Are you engaged now?” one girl was asked when she put it on in year 7

• “Can your Dad or your brother see your hair?”

• “Do you know Osama Bin Laden?”

• “Are you a Terrorist?”

These are just some of the remarks young Muslim women get from people. Such negative ideas and ignorance on the hijab only alienates Muslim women in the wider society and destroys the willingness to accept and respect each other.

It is important for every person to understand the reasons Muslim women choose to wear the hijab and how they feel in the Australian society.

By the way, the answers to the above questions would most probably be: no, no, no, no, yes, no, and no!

By Fatma Youssef and Amna Elghoul

 

 

Click here for Part 1

© Copyright 2003 – Reflections / United Muslim Women Association Inc. – All Rights Reserved


HIJAB IS FREEDOM

July 2, 2008

This is not the face of an oppressed woman.

It is time that people learn about muslim women and realize that by putting on hijab we free ourselves from many of the social pressures and games that needlessly go on.  Hijab is truely an expression of freedom; it is empowerment.  It is freedom to dress the way we feel comfortable, to express our femininity, to be modest, to respect our selves, and to give attention to what is really important; our character, mind, and worshiping Almight God.

 

beauty in hijab


THE BEAUTY OF HIJAAB

July 2, 2008

The Beauty of Hijaab

 

by Mariam Sabr

 

Some 25 years ago, I was growing up as a teenager in Midwest America as most teenagers do.  Although I was more conservative than other girls my age, I was accustomed to wearing jeans and T-shirts, and occasionally a nice dress.  I lived in a small community, and although we were quite secluded from other cultures, we did follow movies with great interest.  During high school, the need to be “cool” was very important to me and my friends, and we had to wear the clothes to fit the part.  In the early 80’s, we tried our best to dress like the stars, and the “in” style was tight jeans, leg warmers, and short T-shirts, or silky pants with a revealing blouse and high heels. 

 

As I got a bit older and went to college, I saw that styles differed from person to person, and began to see people from other cultures wearing clothing that I was unaccustomed to seeing.  It was there when I saw my first muhajjabah (a woman wearing hijaab).   Remembering back, I now faintly recall wearing a scarf on my head as a child, but have no recollection of why I did that or if I had seen something that provoked me to do that – all I remember is liking it.  In college, I had no idea why this woman would cover her head; only thinking that it must have something to do with a strange religion.

 

As Allaah had planned for me, without my realization, I was to meet a Muslim man in one of my classes, who was later to introduce Islaam to me and then become my husband.  As I learned about his country and this different religion, I became so impressed by the ideals and morals of Islaam that I was compelled to accept it as my own.  I was intrigued by the love embodied in Islaam, both in social and family relationships, as well as by the care and protection it gives women.  When I took the shahaadah and became a Muslim, I was suddenly given so many rights that many Western women still struggle to achieve today, including women in my own family.

 

After approximately three months of being a Muslim, I realized that as a follower of Islaam I was commanded to wear the hijaab.  Although I felt very intrepid about the idea, I knew it was an order from Allaah that I must obey.  One night, I decided that I would begin wearing the hijaab starting from the following day.  I was frightened that someone might harm me, or laugh at me, or that I might get fired from my job.  I worried about what my friends and classmates might say to me.  I prayed to Allaah to make my way easy, and to assist me in this endeavor as I was doing it to please Him.  I went to sleep hoping for Allaah’s mercy.

 

The next day, I prepared for my day, but in a slightly different way this time.  Before leaving my home, I tied a small bit of cloth over my head, and went out to work and school.  As soon as I arrived, I felt a sense of peace come over me.  Rather than scornful remarks and laughing, I felt respect and interest.  Rather than harm and hateful looks, I received admiration and reverence.  When I asked Allaah to help me, He really did.  The same people who I had been with yesterday as a normal American girl, were now asking me about my new religion.  My boss seemed very relaxed about it, and when I told her I would need some time to pray every day she was very welcoming.  Several people even told me that I looked more beautiful in hijaab!  To top off my day, a man that I didn’t know opened the door for me.  In the US , this is a sign of esteem – only gentlemen do such things and only for women that they view as respectable ladies.  I was so amazed.

 

However, the blessings did not stop there.  Over the next days and months, I saw a definite shift in the way other people treated me.  Where they used to tell me crude jokes, they now only talked to me in the most respectable manner.  Where men used to come and hug me, there was now an obvious barrier between me and them.  Where I used to walk down the street and get whistled at by construction workers, now I was shown the utmost amount of respect – as if they suddenly realized that I was now a pious and conservative woman.  I welcomed all of this with open arms, as the way I had been treated before was not in congruence with my conservative beliefs. 

 

As time went on and my hijaab became longer, wider, and more covering, all the things that I had mentioned before became more prominent.  I have received a few rude comments or gestures from people; however, I tend to ignore it as they usually come from ignorant people.  On my last trip to visit my family, I wore a loose jilbaab with a large waist-length khimaar with a matching face cover.  I worried that I would be harassed, or that I would be physically harmed, as my visit was less than one year after 9/11.  Once again, I prayed to my Lord to make my path easy, and I was not bothered by a single person during my entire one-month stay.

 

I thank Allaah every day for my hijaab, and I see it as a freedom from the shackles of slavery that Western women live in.  Yes, it can be hot sometimes, but I would never even consider trading it for Western clothing, because that type of dress invites crude speech, lust, and even unwanted touch.  I feel sad when I see some of my Muslim sisters rushing to the call of “women’s liberation”, because I know the sad truth – they are not free, they are mere slaves to the media and those men who are pleased with their dress.

 

O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e.screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft­-Forgiving, Most Merciful.    Al-Ahzaab, aayah 59

 

I pray that my sister will see this truth.  I pray that she will realize the respect that Islaam has granted me and join me in this glorious religion.  I also pray that my sisters in faith, my Muslim daughters and sisters, with hold onto their hijaab as if they are holding onto their lives.  I pray that they realize what a blessing they have, and that Allaah’s command to wear hijaab is not a difficulty for them, but a benefit and ease for their lives.  I pray that they realize this before it is too late . . .

 

 


Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 134 other followers